Magnet girl

I'm a magnet for unavailable men. 

Not in the way you think....

Have you ever looked at a guy and thought. "Oh wow! His smile could drive me wild!" Just to find it really does. And he is just what the doctor ordered. Happy. Charming. Sweet. Hard working. Educated. Tall. Chivalrous. Playful. Loving. All the checks on your list. All our lists are a little different but I'm sure a few of these are on your list as well. 

You work your magic. Show genuine interest. Only to soon discover he is unavailable. Not physically as in He's married. He's not mentally or emotionally available. He loves your attention. Don't get me wrong. He might even be interested in knowing you better. But here's the part you don't wanna hear: his heart and mind are still somewhere he can't control. They are stuck in a limbo between his last love(the one that got away) and his fear of losing it to another. I have an innate ability to radar these types and get sucked right in to their oblivious trap. Thus leaving me ultimately friend-zoned. Lost and wondering "what did I do wrong to get this deep blow?" When in reality, you just didn't listen to him. Why do you want to waste your love and efforts on someone who can't emotionally or mentally love you back? 

Patience. Who the hell has time for that? Really though. It's only for your own good. Maybe you choose these types of men because you, yourself aren't ready for love just yet. And they seem safer. Like commitment free-ish. There motives aren't to hurt you. They are to get as much attention as they can to boost their ego a little. The mere fact that you, a beautiful and wonderful woman spent any effort on this man is enough to keep him from having his man meltdown today. So keep it up. But only let your surface get involved. Any deeper and I warn you it won't end pretty. It will however end. Because we woman are resilient and don't wait around forever. We have too much to live for. On to the next conquest. 

Choose maybe a little wiser this time.